4. They isolate you from other people who appreciate you.
Insidiously, they distance you from your friends and loved ones. They fill you with doubt:
"Why do you talk to them so much?"
"I don't know if this person is right for you."
Tip: Be wary of those who claim to be your "only connection." Healthy people don't need you to isolate yourself to feel important.
5. They drain you emotionally.
After every meeting or conversation, you feel exhausted, confused, sad, or angry… even if you can’t explain exactly why.
Tip: If your body and mind are telling you to take a step back after being with someone, listen to them.
6. They make you doubt yourself.
A malicious person doesn't need to shout or insult you. They just need to sow insecurity. Question your decisions, your ideas, your way of thinking and being.
Tip: If you start doubting yourself simply because this person suggests it, it's time to set boundaries.
7. He always plays the victim.
He's never to blame. He always finds a way to justify his mistreatment or mistakes. If you ask for something, she claims you're attacking her or making her suffer.
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